Four Luxe Ways to Date Yourself (Because You Deserve It)
There’s something magnetic about a woman who knows how to love herself first.
Not the surface-level “self-care” stuff. Not zoning out in the Target parking lot before errands.
I’m talking about deliberate, luxurious, no-one-else-needed energy. The kind that says: I am worth planning for. I am worth showing up for.
So if you need a nudge? Here are four ideas straight from the STP Self-Love Starter Pack:
1. Cozy Movie Night
This isn’t background noise and pajamas.
This is lingerie, low lights, and popcorn in bed because you can.
No audience needed.
Just you—looking and feeling incredible, for you.
2. Spa Day at Home
Run the bath. Add the bubbles.
Champagne in one hand, candlelight in the other.
Face mask optional.
Main character energy? Non-negotiable.
3. Bookstore & Coffee Date
Buy the coffee. Walk the aisles like you wrote the place.
Grab the book that whispers your name.
This isn’t indulgence. It’s intimacy—with yourself.
4. Outdoor Adventure
Step outside. Move your body.
Take a solo picnic, go for a hike, or just breathe it all in.
Fresh air resets everything—and reminds you:
You’re not just surviving. You’re alive. Fully.
The way you romance yourself matters.
It teaches you how to be seen. It raises your standards.
It creates an energy that walks into every room before you do.
Including my studio.
So if you’ve been waiting for someone else to make it special?
Flip the script. Date yourself first.
Because the most magnetic glow you can wear isn’t a filter.
It’s confidence. And it starts with you.
- XOXO
The Self-Love Starter Pack is just the beginning.
Inside: rituals, journal prompts, playlists, recipes, and more to help you fall harder for yourself every damn day.
